Friday 12 December 2008

A Kenyan Wedding! 14th February 2009


Dear Bloggers,
We (Paula & I) have just attended our 1st Kenyan wedding! The reception was very interesting! When we arrived just before the bride and groom (who had come to our home and compound to have photographs taken) we discovered nearly all the food had been eaten, the speeches which were to be given by many members of both families were in local mother tongue, and I ended up in the kitchen drying up all the dishes and cups.
It sounds like a moan - it isn't - it was an experience!
The Wedding...a success...
Having been generously invited to the wedding at Christ Church for a 10.30 start, the bride and groom arrived at 12.40pm! It was a huge affair! The 3 flower girls followed by the 5 bridesmaids entered first, swaying to some pop music, which lasted forever! They were followed by 2 pageboys, best man and 5 groomsmen who also swayed at twice the speed!! The bride had to dance (sway) with her parents up to the front which must have taken 10 minutes! earlier she had had to be physically removed from her aunties who had tried to hold her hostage at her parent's home!
It was apparent that the bride's family was ginormous in number and we were asked to vacate our seats 4 rows from the front and were reallocated seats on the opposite side of the church (the groom's side).

The service went vey well. Worship followed by Eric Swenson leading the ceremony, which included the vows, communion for the couple, and the pronouncement they were man and wife...and allowed their 1st ever kiss as a married couple!!!

The procession out of the church took a shorter time!

The bridesmaids and groomsmen were immaculately dressed and well matched in burgundy/gold dresses and charcoal grey suits with matching burgundy/gold ties.

Kisumu is hot and sticky for weddings to take place I've decided especially when you have to wait hours for things to happen! But hey ho this is Africa and we are their guests and they love to keep us guessing what's next!!

Love to one and all!!!

Kisumu in Summer

Hello bloggers,

It's been 9 weeks since I did a blog and this will be a short one - based in an Italian Coffee place with a free 'hot spot' internet access - for the price of an expensive Milk Shake (£2) but the air conditioning and leather soft seats are great.

We have decided to stay in Kisumu for Christmas, having hoped to go to the coast but we are skint to put it simply.

Kisumu in December is HOT! Life is more realxed now that schools have closed and many are in holiday mode til the beginning of Jan 09.

Paula and I are in good order, covering for Chris Wheat whilst he sun's it down under in Perth with friends from Gosport.

They say that here in Kisumu Christmas is no big deal, except for there being no work done on Christmas day - a bank holiday. We have been invited by American friends to a Christmas eve party where we have to bring 'soup' and 2 'white elephants' in old stockings. Can't wait to open my white elephant. I am looking forward to everyone coming up with a unique response to their 'white elephant'. "Oh my what a wonderful trunk", "Wow what solid legs", "Gosh, these ears are quite something", and so on - all with that American twang/drool. We will need to practice before going! OK I'm only joking. It should be a great event. Our 1st Christmas without our beautiful family being with us or we being with them. Nostalgic!

Christmas - now just think for a moment - Jesus is in heaven one moment and then the next He is incarnated inside a virgin teenager in some backwater place very few had ever heard about. Wow! As i am writing a couple we have met up with out here are going through labour (well she is - so the text says). I wonder what labour pangs did Mary have to go through - no room in the inn and no room for any miscarriages.

Anyway that's enough ranting from me-oops us! We must now go as the waiter has given us the bill...not the normal way things happen here - we have outstayed our free internet service,

Have a look on the new web address www.tkwl.org.uk

Have a great Christmas.

Peter & Paula